"RIBBIT!" Let it rip! Children
love to imitate a frog's cry. It emerges from a deep place in
the gullet, and is at once serious and joyful. Nothing superficial
about that statement: The frog's whole being seems to condense
in that sound. Yet until that moment the frog has long sat silent,
conserving its energy.
The
frog doesn't engage in idle chatter. He doesn't chirp on like
certain birds who trill the whole day through. His silence is
silence, his speech is speech. Much of the principle of "Right
Speech," a part of the Buddha's Eightfold Path to enlightenment,
has to do with what is not said: harsh words, lies, useless blabber.
Engage in speech, the Buddha declared, only when it improves on
silence. In our culture we are inundated by words -- a single
magazine might contain some 50,000 -- but how many meet that test?
Yet
the frog's croak does. His is "right speech," resonant
and full.
What the frog does with silence and sound it duplicates in movement
and stillness. Whether on the banks of a stream, or poised on
a lily pad, the frog impassively sits. It bides its time, waiting
for a bug to approach, then whoosh tongue darts
out and snatches the prey. No wonder the frog is celebrated in
Zen painting and poetry. It is a symbol of the enlightened being
who knows how to be still. How to await the proper moment, then
seize opportunity with decisive action. No wasted motion. No agonies
of anticipation or regret. Just sit. Wait. Then act.
But
how often we are anti-frogs. We rush about restlessly creating
havoc, propelled by worries and a desire to control. We would
rather be in the know than in the Now knowing what is to
come and how it will turn out. As a result we live clumsily in
an imagined future, rather than gracing the present with our presence.
As an anti-frog we then miss the fly. The opportune moment to
act comes and departs, as we consider, reconsider, then regret.
Not
so the frog. Its very cry cuts through all that nonsense: "RIBBIT!"
Yes, let us emulate this noble example. In fairy-tales a maiden's
kiss turns a yucky frog back to a prince. But maybe we've got
it all wrong. Wouldn't it be better if the princes of our world
could speak and act a bit more like frogs?
With a troublesome situation, are you doing
the frog-thing?: waiting still, and silent, until the appropriate
moment, then acting decisively? Is there a particular situation
to which this lesson might be applied?